On Being an ArtSci (Artsy) Woman

Growing up, I was taught to believe certain things were exemplary — a rigorous liberal arts education, regular exercise, PBS, well-made clothing, Christianity, American democracy and culture, homemade meals, museums, fresh air, dogs, friends, books, gardens, and FFO (for family only) real talk. I still value much of what I was raised to believe was good, with the most distinct exception of Christianity.

Shortly before my mom died at the experienced, but not at all old, age of 56, she told me she wanted my children to inherit from her a sense of aesthetics. She wanted them…